Self-love does not happen by accident, it is not natural or normal. For many our default is to be self-critical, rarely cutting ourselves any slack. Loving you needs to be a conscious daily act as you are your own best resource. Here are some quotes to inspire you to create a habit of filling your own self-love cup.

“When you recover or discover something that nourishes your soul and brings joy, care enough about yourself to make room for it in your life.” – Jean Shinoda Bolen
“Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are.” – Malcolm S. Forbes
“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.” – Oscar Wilde
“Most of the shadows of this life are caused by standing in one’s own sunshine.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“When I loved myself enough, I began leaving whatever wasn’t healthy. This meant people, jobs, my own beliefs and habits – anything that kept me small. My judgment called it disloyal. Now I see it as self-loving” – Kim McMillen
“Perhaps we should love ourselves so fiercely, that when others see us they know exactly how it should be done.” – Rudy Francisco
“In a society that profits from your self doubt, liking yourself is a rebellious act.” – Caroline Caldwell
“The one thing you can control is how you treat yourself. And that one thing can change everything.” – Leeana Tankersley
“You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” _ Louise L. Hay
“Forgiveness is an act of self-love.” – Don Miguel Ruiz

“Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world.” – Pema Chödron